I amla, your host, your guide, a teacher for Sam, and a soft place to fall for others.

And I was a miserable failure in my relationships until I love myself enough to be able to share my love with other people.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Welcome to the R-Spot. I am Yambler, your guide, your support, the facilitator of a level of consciousness that will

support us in creating, recreating, building, rebuilding, growing growing and healing all relationships in our lives and today I want to focus on

men again you know I always talk to women about relationships I I usually deal

with women in relationships but many women are in relationships with men and I think that we often don't

understand them. We don't understand that. We don't understand that they

experience the same thing that we do.

And one of those areas is in cheating.

I've talked to hundreds, maybe even thousands of women

who are crippled and

destroyed on some level when their partner cheats on them

Well today I'm gonna talk to a man who's had a very similar experience and he's calling because he wants to know how to do it different. Facing a new relationship, he wants to know how to do it different but before we can discover that we have to hear his story

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Greetings beloved and welcome to the R spot. I am talking to men today and I am so excited as a woman to hear a man's point of view. We're talking about how men

recover from betrayal, from cheating, when their partners steps out on them.

So I want to know what you're bringing to the table.

I actually had two failed marriages due to infidelity.

Their infidelity or yours? They're infidelity.

Both women are cheating on me.

Yes ma'am.

The first one, we got together, we dated for five years and then we decided to get married. We were

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