In Northern Ireland, from the late 70s to the early 90s, the IRA killed over 40 alleged informers.

But the man who often found, tortured and sometimes killed these people on behalf of the IRA

was himself an informer, a secret British army agent with the codename Stakeknife.

Who gets to play God? And why me? Why my family? When lies are still being told to this day,

who do you believe? I wouldn't even know where to start and I'm with the IRA.

Steakknife. Listen first on BBC Sounds. BBC Sounds, music, radio, podcasts. Are you planning to get married or form a civil partnership?

Whether you're a couple funding it yourself or a relative picking up the bill, there are costs and hidden costs.

We'll be covering the major ones, finding ways to minimise your budget and maximise your spending power.

We'll also look at some of the legal points you might need to consider before and after the big day.

Call us on 03-700-100-444 or email your questions and tips to Moneybox at BBC.co.com.

Joining us from our Salford studio is Lisa Garwood Cross, founder of the website Living

Thrifty. Now Lisa, you married your partner, Steph, last year. How much did it cost? We spent

just over £2,500 in total. And for how many guests? Oh, just around 100. Right, so £2,000, that's the cost of the dress for most weddings.

Why did you want to keep costs down?

So we had quite a long engagement and what we found was basically a lot of life stuff happened in the middle.

So we were saving for and bought a house and I started a PhD all before the wedding.

And for us it was a big important thing that we wanted to start our married life without any wedding debt. So we decided

to look at what we actually had available to spend on a wedding and go from there. Thanks, Lisa.

Stay with us. Our next guest is co-founder of Money Medics, which provides financial information and tips online.

She's also a bride to be.

Eve Obesuya.

Eve, congratulations.

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