(Matt Monday): What To Do When They Aren’t Asking You Questions on a Date

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 30 September 2024

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

“Were we even on the same date?”

I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all.

In today’s episode, I respond to a viral tiktok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.

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0:00.0	Making sure there never will be a silence because the idea of that silence is just so painfully anxiety-inducing for you.
0:08.6	So you say, I'm just going to keep asking questions and then at the end of the conversation you go they didn't ask me
0:14.3	anything. Because I'm actually did this and after the first day it left me feeling like I'm not even sure if this guy is into me because
0:40.5	Today we are gonna talk about the phenomenon of people happen and what can you do about it?
0:56.4	Today I'm watching a Tik-Tog video about someone who was very frustrated with the lack of curiosity,
1:05.6	shall we say, from the guy that she was on a date with.
1:08.2	Let's watch and see what she had to say.
1:10.6	If you're going on a first date with a guy, sit, listen, and ask them questions.
1:15.6	No, because I actually did this and after the first day it left me feeling like I'm not even sure if this guy is into me because he didn't ask me any single question on the first day.
1:24.4	Have any of you experienced this?
1:26.6	Is this something that has been a frustration for you in the past?
1:30.3	Someone literally sitting across from you, you feeling like you're doing a great job. someone literally about this person in front of you because ultimately that's what a date is isn't it?
1:45.2	It's two people who are trying to get to know each other enough to know whether they want to do it again.
1:53.0	Hmm.
1:55.0	But I did agree to go on a second day and my best friend Sophie...
1:58.0	I always think it's funny when people say that, stuff like that.
2:01.0	It was horrible.
2:02.0	I did obviously agree to go on a second
2:04.6	night and this is what happened on the second day.
2:06.6	This guy is into me because he didn't ask me any single question on the first day, but I
2:10.8	did agree to go on a second day and my best friend Sophia told me that
2:13.8	any time that there's silence I need to learn to shut the F up and take a sip of my water
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