You know, because it's really hard in the middle of, in the heat of an argument, in the heat of like a discipline, it's really hard to go, hey, I'm sorry, I love you. I'm like, it's really hard. Is there a formula to make love last?

Because I know it's a bit annoying and trendy when people want to simplify everything.

Like, oh, give me the three tips to have a happy marriage.

If it was three, everybody would be happy.

So, but is there like a monumental thing, such a crucial thing to make love last?

Listen, I'm asking the same question because I'm in a new marriage.

You know, I've never been married before.

I'm learning all the time.

I don't profess to be an expert in marriage.

You know, I have spent a lot of time studying relationships

and trying to understand what makes some relationships work and others not.

But I'm learning and I'm looking to people wiser than me and who have got more reps than me for these kinds of questions.

But I, when I see people genuinely being a team together, that to me is always like,

this sign.

Are they really a team?

When we're having an argument, like, are we competing with each other?

Or ultimately are we both looking at the problem together?

Whether the problem comes from me or comes from you, are we looking at the problem together

and going, this, the problem is the enemy.

You're not the enemy.

We're a team.

I think if you can be a genuine team with your partner, which can mean also looking

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