Never get yourself into a situation where someone is more in love with your absence than your presence,

because it gets you the kind of relationship you wouldn't want in the first place. One of the challenges of dating today is that so many people want a relationship and keep ending up in casual situationships of some kind.

Is there anything that we ourselves might be doing to contribute to being put in the casual zone without even knowing it.

I am Matthew Hussey by the way if you're new to this channel. I have a New York

time I have two two David New York Times best-selling books one of them is called

Love Life the other one's called Get the Guy. It doesn't matter. It was a long time ago. Go get it though. It still matters. I mean I worked very hard on it. But we also have done lots of live events over 17 years including retreats and tours and webinars and why am I telling you all of this well

because before you watch this video you might be thinking I want to come to one of your

live events well you can on October the 22nd, I'm doing an online event that is all about

getting to commitment. If you are sick and tired of this dating culture where nothing ever seems

to materialize into something real and you want to make sure

you're one of the people that actually does find a real and lasting relationship.

You have to be there. It's going to be super practical. It's going to make a big difference. I really believe it's going to be a game changer for the people that are there. And it's free. So you can go and sign up right now at love life training.com open little

browser type in love life training dot com it will take you to a registration page you can

just join right now for free and I will email you the details so

that you know how to access it on the day. That link again is love life

training.com. Now let's get to the video.

There was a story I heard recently from someone who asked me a question,

some advice for their love life.

I was actually on the podcast Fake Doctors Real Friends with

Zach Braff and Donald Faison, which was really exciting because I grew up a very big Scrubs fan and well there were the Scrubs lads sitting in front of me.

But midway through the podcast their producer joined to ask me a question and she said,

well I'm dating this woman who lives in another town it's long distance and well you know I want some advice for the situation I said well want? She said, well, I'm just seeing where it goes. And I said, but do you like this person? And she said, oh my God, she's amazing. You know, she's amazing you know she's hot she's

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