(Matt Monday): Scared of Him Losing Interest After Sleeping Together? WATCH THIS
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 20 June 2022
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including:
• When to have sex with someone you’re dating.
• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).
• How to handle rejection and ghosting.
I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome.
Your coach,
Matthew x
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| 0:00.0 | It might be that I know about myself that if I have sex, I'm going to get even more connected. |
| 0:05.9 | But assuming that's true for the other person is an extremely dangerous thing to do. |
| 0:30.0 | We're going to talk in very raw ways about when to have sex with someone you're dating. |
| 0:35.7 | How to have the conversation about sex before having it and I even give you an exact script |
| 0:41.4 | for doing that and how to handle it if after sex someone disappears. Let's get into it. |
| 0:51.6 | The decision for so many women about when to have sex with a guy is a fraught with complexity |
| 1:00.9 | in so many people's minds and potential emotional consequences. If I really like this person, |
| 1:07.8 | when is the right time to have sex with them? How will I feel if after sex this person goes cold, |
| 1:14.8 | if they reject me, if they ghost me and just disappear without an explanation? What is that |
| 1:20.4 | going to do to my self-esteem? Am I going to feel shame? Am I going to feel used? Am I going to |
| 1:26.0 | feel like a regret that I wish I hadn't done that? Then beyond even knowing that you really like |
| 1:32.8 | someone, if you have sex with them, do you run the risk of feeling more bonded to them chemically |
| 1:39.6 | after that? And this as a result now, I am almost certain to feel like I'm in a more vulnerable |
| 1:47.2 | place after this. This is a difficult thing for a lot of people who want to enjoy the early |
| 1:55.3 | stages of dating, want to enjoy the romance of it, the excitement of it, want to enjoy the organic |
| 2:03.3 | progression of things, but can't help but place a lot of emphasis and importance and even a |
| 2:12.0 | symbolism around the moment of sex and then throw into that the idea that so many people feel like |
| 2:21.7 | I've given up power after that act and you have a recipe for something that feels like a |
| 2:27.6 | minefield to so many women. I think that this can be made simple in the sense that |
| 2:39.0 | any conversations that are happening in your head about what someone's intentions are |
| 2:48.6 | or what you feel around sex can be and should be in an elegant way aired out loud before |
| 2:59.9 | going to that place of intimacy with someone. Why? Well firstly, it forces you to be conscious |
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