If you're finding that that person cannot, will not have the conversation about the progression,

about when you might start thinking or looking at those things,

if they can't have those conversations,

something is going wrong. Hey everyone. Welcome back to the channel. I am Matthew Hussey, a coach

specializing in confidence and relational intelligence who for the last 17 years

has been helping people find love.

I'm the author of the New York Times bestseller Love Life.

Check it out.

And in today's video, I give my honest advice

for the very real challenge that is faced by so many single women

who feel that they are running out of time for one of their major life goals to have a family.

The way that I want to talk about this topic

is in a series of six practical steps that I outlined today.

And these steps were actually a response to a real question that I got from one of my

Love Life Club members, Marion, who asked me a question about the tension she felt in dating knowing that she wants a family and she wants one soon

but not wanting to make bad choices. So I gave her six practical steps that I know are going to relate to you two if you're in her position or one like it.

All right, on to Mariam's question.

I wanted to share my love life story to get a different perspective from the stories I have created in my head.

Smart. We all do that, don't we, create stories in our head?

I am a 38-year-old woman who has never been married and has no kids.

I have dedicated the last 15 years to working on getting established in the U, learning the language, completing college,

getting positioned in a good job after coming from Malaysia. All of that is done and I'm

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