Connection is not character.

Connections aren't the only thing that make great relationships.

Character makes great relationships. Oh, Guys I just received the first box of my new book Love Life. These are literally the first

copies ever in existence of this book. This thing right here is four years of life for me and it's just a huge moment for me.

I'm so so so so excited.

I can't wait for you guys to get your hands on this. And by the way, when you do get a copy of the new book,

we are also doing a really exciting giveaway that I'm going to tell you about at the end of the video.

You are going to want to be a part of this, the prizes are ridiculous.

You'll see, but for now, on to the video.

Why are great dates dangerous? Let me tell you. There was a question that I received on a

live session I did recently from a woman called Deborah and here's what she asked

me. What to do if a guy you went on a date with suddenly disappeared,

but the connection was just epic.

He even gave me his favorite book.

I have the copy. At least take it back. This is addressed not just to Deborah, but to anyone who is thinking about a great date they went on where someone had no follow through afterwards and is driving themselves

mad with the potential for what that could have been.

I think of these things, I've been saying this this recently as the unhatched eggs of our love life

the little eggs of love potential that we nestle and keep warm and think about and drive ourselves crazy over thinking

imagine the potential imagine what that could have been now Deborah describes an epic connection that she felt on this date.

And this is where first dates can get really dangerous.

Because firstly, a connection is not character.

Connections aren't the only thing that make great relationships.

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