| 0:00.0 | It was so painful. It almost to me Matthew felt like my dating life and my relationship life |
| 0:06.3 | was this big black hole of like a pain in the ass. |
| 0:09.9 | Recently we had a special event where coach author speaker Marie Forleo came to join my members |
| 0:35.8 | in the love life club. It was an amazing conversation. We did a whole round of questions and coaching |
| 0:42.4 | live by Marie for my members. If you weren't there I wanted to bring you a small clip from that |
| 0:49.4 | session that you could watch here today on video. There's also a longer part of the conversation |
| 0:54.3 | that is on the love life podcast. So if you enjoy this at the end of this clip I'll share a |
| 0:58.8 | link for you to go and listen to that on the podcast. But for now enjoy this special part of a |
| 1:04.8 | conversation I had with Marie Forleo. When you say that you know that it would be good for people |
| 1:14.8 | to be more curious to whether it's a new app or a new social gathering whether the different |
| 1:20.2 | kind of person than the person they are used to. This person over here this stereotype that I |
| 1:25.6 | keep going for that's the kind of person I'm attracted to. So am I supposed to go for someone |
| 1:30.3 | I'm not attracted to and will that serve me long term if I feel bored in this relationship or if |
| 1:35.8 | I don't feel physically attracted to this person even though they're perfectly lovely to me. |
| 1:40.4 | What do you say to people about what parts of that blueprint to shed but also how to find attraction |
| 1:48.8 | in new sources than the ones that either keep hurting them or keep rejecting them or don't seem |
| 1:54.8 | to exist in the form of a real relationship? Yes. Okay. So let's tackle the blueprint first because |
| 2:00.8 | I think that this is really interesting. I remember in my own history from Jersey was dating basically |
| 2:08.3 | the same guy in different bodies again and again and again and again and like as an Italian |
| 2:13.2 | American we have this term is called a widow if you've ever heard of it. It's like somebody who's |
| 2:17.4 | like got a lot of muscles definitely went to a tanning salon definitely has some gold chains. |
| 2:22.9 | So I had that same type of boyfriend like over and over and over and over and it never quite worked |
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