(Matt Monday): Freaking Out About Still Being Single??
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 11 July 2022
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:
“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”
This mindset is dangerous.
Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices.
It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops.
And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want.
That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that.
I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life.
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| 0:00.0 | You could be single for the next five years and the relationship you find in five years lasts |
| 0:05.3 | because of who you became in that time. |
| 0:08.1 | Today I'm going to be talking about seven different mindsets that can help you out of the anxiety |
| 0:34.4 | of still being single. |
| 0:37.7 | Now before we get into that I just wanted to let everyone know that I have a free training |
| 0:42.8 | coming up called dating with results. |
| 0:46.1 | If you're sick and tired of being on the dating treadmill, if you're sick and tired |
| 0:50.0 | of people not treating dating seriously who you go on dates with, people using you, love |
| 0:55.9 | bombing, gas lighting, if you want to get results in your love life, go there now, sign |
| 1:01.0 | up for free and join me for dating with results. |
| 1:08.6 | This was a question that came in from one of our members. |
| 1:12.0 | She says, I'm 29 and starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I'm still |
| 1:17.7 | single. |
| 1:18.7 | I can't help but wonder what's wrong with me that I haven't found something lasting |
| 1:22.8 | yet. |
| 1:24.0 | How do I shift this mindset and ensure it doesn't sabotage my dating life? |
| 1:28.2 | I don't want to be too eager and end up settling for the next decent thing that comes |
| 1:33.2 | my way and I'm afraid I've done this with the last few men I have dated. |
| 1:38.0 | The first thing I would say to this person is to avoid the seduction of false progress. |
| 1:45.7 | When we feel like we need to make progress and then we see someone in front of us, maybe |
| 1:52.3 | they're not quite right for us, maybe they fall beneath certain standards we have for |
| 1:57.7 | the behaviour we want or maybe we just don't really click with them on the level that |
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