(Matt Monday): Dangerous Red Flags That Are RISKY TO IGNORE

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2023

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price.

When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may pursue someone who doesn’t want a relationship in the hope of changing them, or prioritize someone else’s needs over your own because of your feelings of admiration.

For today’s episode, I’ve gathered some of my best advice over the years on spotting and acting on red flags . . . so you can move on faster and avoid the pain of heartbreak with someone who just isn’t ready.

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0:00.8	Anyone is capable of going on a bad date.
0:03.0	The difference is the successful people
0:05.1	cut them off early.
0:06.8	The moment they see a red flag, they're out of there.
0:10.1	Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast.
0:30.6	I am Matthew Hussey and I believe today's episode is really going to help you accelerate
0:36.4	your love life today.
0:37.8	Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the episode.
0:44.8	If someone tells you I'm not sure I'm ready, then you have to do some calculations.
0:50.6	You have to say, okay, I like this person.
0:52.4	They're saying they're not sure I'm ready.
0:53.6	That's an immediate giant red flag.
0:57.4	It's not them saying, by the way, I'm not sure I know you well enough yet.
1:00.8	That's fine.
1:01.8	Let's get to know each other better then.
1:03.8	If they're saying, I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship, that is a giant red flag.
1:10.4	They are telling you today, I am going to hurt you.
1:14.8	In case you didn't hear, I am going to hurt you.
1:19.9	They're telling you to your face that you are going to get your heart broken here.
1:26.2	So you have to make a decision with that.
1:28.5	Do I want to continue to invest in someone who says they're not sure they're ready
1:31.9	for a relationship?
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