Narcissists are often master shape-shifters.

When they're in power, they're a tyrant.

They're a dictator.

When they're not in power, they're a victim.

And they know how to switch like that. What are the seven reasons why you will never get closure from a narcissist.

Hello, I'm Matthew Hussie if you're new to the channel.

Welcome.

Today I want to talk about the subject of narcissism and why.

Dealing with a narcissist can be so unbelievably unrewarding.

Why, when we deal with people like this, there is a complete and

utter lack of closure and how in feeling that lack of closure, in feeling that there is no sense

of completion in any of the things that we deal with with them, it can be maddening. The reason I wanted to make this

video is because I want us to get out of the cycle of going back to these people and hoping for

a different result, hoping that we are this time going to go back and finally get the closure

that we've always wanted from them. I hope that I can make this video in some ways

so dismal, so bleak in its outlook when it comes to the outcomes of these situations that you will

simply resolve to get out of them instead of trying to fix them.

There's a moment in Oliver Berkman's book, I wish I could figure out who said it, but he was

talking about someone who said, my job is not to get people to lighten the load.

It's to make the load so heavy that they simply put it down.

And that's what I'd like to do with this video.

Why can you never expect to get closure from a narcissist?

...