Being single isn't the time wasted, dating the wrong people, knowing that they're the wrong people.

That's the time wasted.

Are you sick and tired of the way that your love life is going?

Do you feel like you keep saying yes to the wrong people?

Do you feel like you're tired of going on dates where you don't actually get what you want

or you don't actually feel what you want to feel but you're stuck in this comfortable loop

that seems to be never ending.

One of the hardest things I watch is people get stuck in their love lives because they keep saying yes to the wrong things.

And the wrong thing doesn't just have to be someone who's treating you badly.

It can be someone you're not that excited about, someone that every time you go on a date with,

you come home feeling like I kind of just regret how I spent that time because I found out the exact same thing I found out the last time I saw this person,

which is that I'm not that interested.

We get stuck in these comfortable loops in our love life that never really allow us to progress and find the thing we're really looking for,

but it's attractive because it's within reach and it's comfortable.

Step number one, ask yourself, how did I feel the last two times I left this person's company?

Have you ever had someone in your life, whether they're a romantic interest or a friend where on paper you had a friendship or you had a romance?

On paper it should have been good but every time you met up with that person you left feeling depleted,

you left feeling insecure or drained or judged or just worse about yourself.

And maybe you couldn't even put your finger on why. But there was something about this person's energy that didn't fill you up.

It took from you.

The truth is that sometimes we fill these things and we don't even tap into that.

We don't tune into ourselves and realize that this is how this person makes us feel.

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