So we have to stop asking whether someone likes us and start asking do I see

genuine progress.

So I thought I'd do a video today where I just pointed out some of those

quiet signals, those unconscious things that we may feel but not necessarily

be able to put our finger on that show that someone isn't serious so that you

cannot waste any more of your time on that person.

The first subtle sign that somebody isn't serious is inconsistency in

communication or inconsistency in energy. Let's start with communication. It may

be that you'll have a two day period where they're really active and then two

weeks where you barely hear from them. When someone is serious, there tends to be a

sense of them, they may be busy, they may have a lot going on but there is the

sense that they want you to know that they haven't fallen off the radar. There

is the sense that they want you to know that they actually like you and that

they're interested in seeing you again. When someone feels like they're very

active in communication in one minute and then they fall off the radar the next,

that usually is a sign that they're not serious about showing you that they

want to be an ongoing person in your life and that they want progression which

is a very important word, progression. Now that inconsistency of communication

also extends to inconsistency in energy. When you notice that there are quite

significant or even drastic changes in someone's energy, that's often a sign

that they're not serious. It's usually a sign that this person enjoys having an

experience with you but doesn't actually want to create something with you. So I'll

...