That's where the disaster begins, because all you're doing is looking at the things you find attractive.

You're not looking at the fundamental qualities that are missing in this person.

Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussey. Also, Jameson Audrey and Stephen with me. Hello friends. Hello. Howdy.

So today we are doing a part two of the episode where we asked people what patterns or reoccurring mistake are taking place in their love life that they want to work on.

We got a great response to the first episode. Here is part two. Before we go into that, if you haven't already, we have a one hour training that shows you how to get out of casual situations, mindlessly being on dating apps.

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Alright, so getting into the episode, Audrey, you were last time reading comments from people who are answering this question on our Instagram and Facebook.

Yeah, so we put a post out and we basically asked people what patterns or reoccurring mistakes kept coming up in their love lives that they felt were sabotaging their chance at a happy relationship.

So see as we're going through these, see if you see yourself in any of these.

And the reason we decided to do a part two episode and if you haven't listened to part one, you should go back and do that.

But the reason we decided to do part two is because there are so many incredible responses from people and quite frankly we couldn't choose which ones to talk about.

So let's kick things off with Sarah who wrote a comment underneath our post and she said that her pattern is that she invests too quickly.

She asked how do I take things slowly and only invest when the person proves that they deserve it.

Investing too quickly. Well, we've all done that.

There's actually a little part of that in dating with results if I remember.

So well, we list four. Is it three or four big mistakes in dating with results? I forget.

So either three or four, but in dating with results, we go through the biggest, most common mistakes that people make in early dating and one of them is investing too quickly.

We invest too quickly because well, look, when we really want something to happen, we are a biased judge.

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