(Matt Monday): 13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 1 August 2022

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward.

I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.

And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.

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0:00.0	A lot of people only see us in one context, the date context.
0:03.8	Send them a picture from a different part of your life where they see you in a context they haven't seen you yet.
0:10.0	What does it take to get a bloody relationship these days?
0:32.7	A lot of people find themselves in these protracted, casual situations, dynamics that mimic relationships
0:40.4	that give people the boyfriend, girlfriend experience, but try and pin someone down and ask them
0:46.8	are we actually in a relationship? Are we actually exclusive? Is this going somewhere?
0:51.2	And suddenly they start to freak out. I'm going to give you 13 ways to be taken seriously by
0:58.0	somebody for a relationship and they are really practical and really easy to do.
1:07.1	Before we do that, I want to make sure that you go over to howtogettheguide.com.
1:12.0	We have a new tool over there. It allows you to tell us what your love life challenge is right now
1:17.1	and then the tool recommends you my best solution for what you're going through.
1:23.3	All you have to do is go over to howtogettheguide.com, put in your name and hit start here for your
1:30.0	personalized solution. Number one, be more than a last minute plan. It's so easy when we like someone
1:42.4	and they text us at the last minute saying do you want to do something tonight? It's so easy to just
1:47.3	say yes. Now I'm not saying you should never respond to a spontaneous offer to see someone,
1:53.0	but if you find yourself routinely responding to last minute offers, then you are devaluing yourself.
2:00.0	Instead, send someone a message back that says I'd have loved to but I have plans tonight.
2:05.6	Maybe give me more than 24 hours. No, it's next time. Question mark, little blushy, smiling face.
2:12.6	Number two, don't just go with their flow on a date. There's a temptation isn't there to sort of
2:22.7	please someone by going with their rhythm, their pace, what they want. Is someone else wants to have
2:28.8	many drinks? We feel like we should have many drinks with them. Someone else wants to stay out late.
2:34.7	We have work in the morning. We're going to be tired. We don't really want to stay out late,
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