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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): 10 Ways to Get Over “Dating Disappointment”

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 23 December 2024

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.”
 
But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope.

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0:00.0

I want to talk about what you can do to feel better after a string of disappointing dating experiences.

0:12.0

Maybe you're feeling a little hopeless right now.

0:14.0

Maybe you feel like you've just taken one too many knocks and it makes you want to throw in the towel altogether in your love life.

0:21.3

Well, I'm going to give you 10 pieces of advice in this video that I have learned and

0:26.3

accumulated over the years of doing this.

0:29.3

I think are going to help you feel a little better over the time that it takes to watch this. It is one of the most painful experiences when we want to find love and we can't seem to find it

1:00.0

anywhere.

1:00.7

Not only that, but it feels really, really difficult to even find a reason to hope.

1:07.1

It feels like we've never been further from meeting the right person for us.

1:12.2

And with every new knock, it just confirms this suspicion we have that it's never going to happen for us.

1:19.8

So let's dive right into these 10 pieces of advice, this wisdom that I have discovered over the years for people going through this.

1:28.3

The first one is to realize you are not alone.

1:33.3

It could be a very isolating experience to feel like nothing's happening in our love life

1:38.3

or we keep getting heartbroken, we keep getting rejected.

1:41.3

But the reality is we are in very good company if we're finding it challenging

1:47.4

to meet our person. One of the most painful things about not meeting someone or struggling to

1:54.2

meet someone is the story we end up telling ourselves about that situation, that I am not good

2:00.7

enough, that I'm never going to find situation, that I am not good enough, that I'm never going

2:02.9

to find someone, that I'm not worthy, that it's easy for everyone else and hard for me. But none of

2:10.2

those stories are necessarily true. Other people in great numbers are having the same difficulty as you finding love.

2:20.8

And when we recognize that, it doesn't take away one part of the difficulty, which is that we

2:26.2

want to find love and we haven't found it. But it does take away that added sting that is

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