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Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 2

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 July 2023

⏱️ 91 minutes

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Welcome back! In part two of our eye-opening episode with behavioral expert, writer, researcher, and PhD student at the Evolutionary Psych Lab, William Costello, we're diving deeper into the fascinating world of modern male behavior. In today’s episode we’re unraveling the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on dating behaviors, highlighting the contrast between men's renewed risk-taking stance and women's escalated risk aversion. Then, prepare to delve into the mind of the incel community. Gain insights into their societal outlook, their struggles, and the evident lack of constructive coping mechanisms. Finally, we'll explore how incels are empowered by AI to actively and healthily participate in dating and mating market. Discover how tech can foster better cross-sex understanding and transform social engagements. This isn’t your typical podcast episode - it's a journey into understanding societal shifts that are shaping our world, and by tuning in, you're gaining valuable insights to navigate your own life better. So, are you ready to continue this journey with us? Hit that play button and let's dive in! And if you haven't already, be sure to subscribe for more empowering content and knowledge to help you level up your life! William Costello Quotes: “I can understand why an individual incel might elect to hunker down into victimhood identity and online worlds rather than engaging with the mating market they don’t have much faith in.” “Incels are using their male typical psychology to try to not empathize with their female counterparts.” Follow William Costello: Website: https://william05227.wixsite.com/website  Twitter: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam  SPONSORS: elizabeth@advertisepurple.com Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome back to part two with William Costello. We are talking about the sex recession that we're in, and this really is in a laughing matter. As silly as that sounds, population collapse is something that could present a dire danger. Elon Musk has said that he thinks the greatest danger that we face is population collapse. It is certainly not overpopulation. And with

0:22.1

William, we really dive into the sexual dynamics between men and women that's driving towards

0:26.4

this radical change, what's going on, what we can do to address it. We get into in cells,

0:31.2

that whole movement, everything that's going on on the internet and how that's feeding into all

0:35.0

this. So strap in everybody. This is a very,

0:37.6

very interesting topic.

0:39.0

I hope you get as much out of it as I did.

0:40.8

And now,

0:41.5

welcome back to William Costello.

0:43.3

I'm your host,

0:43.8

Tom Billu,

0:44.4

and welcome to Impact Theory.

0:47.4

Okay,

0:48.0

so let's talk about some of the mismatch.

0:50.5

I'm very grateful that I dodged the Tinder bullet,

0:57.2

because I would have used the life out of that.

0:57.6

Yeah.

1:06.1

And when I was in my early 20s, while I was very, I am a big believer in love.

1:09.6

But when I met my wife, I didn't think I was going to ever get married. I was very much on the train of like, cool, let's have a lot of short-term partners. Now that I understand women, I understand

1:15.8

the game. I know how to get laid when I get laid as much as I can. Yeah. Bad news is I'm really

1:20.9

bad at not catching feels when I meet somebody extraordinary. Uh, and so Phil end up falling head over heels.

1:27.4

But when you look at the graph

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