MATING CRISIS: The Biggest Problems Keeping Men & Women SINGLE... | Stephan Speaks
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🗓️ 21 February 2023
⏱️ 123 minutes
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Summary
Looking for a high value man or woman will have you feeling more detached from yourself and reality than figuring out your life’s purpose.
Generally speaking there are natural occurring differences between men and women that do not have to be viewed as adversarial or problematic. In today’s social media influenced dating scene, there are so many toxic ideals floating around that dating and finding relationships are more difficult than they ever were before.
Traditional male roles are being attacked for being toxically unacceptable by today’s internet standards and both men and women are feeling pressure to live up to standards that a narrow percentage of people will actually fit into. Stephan Speaks is joining Tom to address a very hard conversation.
Stephan Speaks has garnered hundreds of millions of views from his own YouTube presence as a relationship expert focused on helping men and women create healthier happier relationships aligned with the essence of their true self. He’s not shy about calling out behaviors and flawed thinking from men and women that make finding authentic connection difficult.
Declining testosterone levels in young men, porn, and an unhealed broken subset of men (and women) with large online platforms are just a few of the issues of a much bigger problem that Stephan is speaking to in this episode.
Let’s talk about why you’re being shamed for not wanting the internet standard and how the Andrew Tate phenomenon and others like that for men and women are destroying your potential for love, family and real connection.
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| 0:00.0 | What's up guys? I am really excited to have relationship experts. Stefan speaks joining me for this episode. |
| 0:06.5 | He is a best-selling author and speaker who has captured the attention of hundreds of millions of men and women on his YouTube channel by helping them find and maintain healthier relationships. |
| 0:17.0 | Stefan and I had a ton of chemistry together and I think this episode is fantastic. |
| 0:20.9 | And today we're talking all about how men attract high value women, the importance of not |
| 0:26.0 | being shamed by the internet standards of dating and the Andrew Tate phenomenon. |
| 0:31.2 | I hope you guys enjoy listening to this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it. |
| 0:35.5 | And if you do, please leave a review. It really is the best |
| 0:38.3 | way to support the podcast so that we can help other people just like you reach their potential |
| 0:42.4 | and be legendary. I'm Tom Bill You and welcome to Impact Theory. |
| 0:50.3 | Stefan Speaks, welcome to the show. Thank you for having me. I'm excited to have you, man. |
| 0:54.5 | I've seen all the stuff that you've done with Lisa on women of impact. |
| 0:57.8 | And I want to get into modern dating, what's happening now, as somebody who's been in my marriage |
| 1:03.6 | now for 20 years. |
| 1:05.8 | It's like, it's a real thing. |
| 1:07.3 | Thank you. |
| 1:08.5 | So guys that are going after high value women and are struggling to get them, |
| 1:14.7 | what are they doing wrong? Are they chasing too much? They're not chasing enough. What should |
| 1:19.3 | they be doing? Well, I think the first thing might be how they define high value woman. Okay. |
| 1:23.7 | You know, and so I think some men may be placing value in the wrong things. |
| 1:30.2 | And the high value woman to a lot of men is about how attractive she is. |
| 1:34.9 | And though, of course, I believe attraction is extremely important. |
| 1:37.9 | You can't overlook that. |
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