Hey, this is Leo, for actualized.org.

And in this episode, I'm really excited to be talking about masculinity versus femininity.

Because I want to help to get you a really deep

understanding of the psychology of the male and female mind. Imagine the following situation.

Imagine the following situation. You buy yourself a new cat and you bring this cat home.

You bring it home and you're excited to do all the cat stuff that you know cats love to do. So what's the first thing you do? Well you say okay boy come

here I want you to roll over. Roll over. And the cat sits there, looks at you kind of funny, doesn't move.

And you kind of scratch your head and you're wondering,

what's wrong with this cat?

Why isn't it rolling over?

But you shrug it off and you say, okay fine.

All right, boy, let's go, let's go to the park I'm gonna

take you for a walk to the park so you grab the leash hook it up and

walk your cat out the door he's resisting a little bit but you kind of pull him anyways. And you're walking to the park, and

you're walking through the park, and as you're walking through, people are looking at you a little bit funny. But you don't really mind. So you're just walking and you got your bag of stuff and you got your cat and you're just enjoying the beautiful day.

And then you get out onto the grassy knoll there and you take out a tennis bowl from your bag and you throw it out there far into the grass and you say go go boy and you unhook the cat and you say go fetch the ball and the cat just sits there and looks at you kind of funny.

Starts looking around and sniffing the grass. Hmm, what's wrong with his damn cat?

All I know he wants the frisbee.

So you pull out the frisbee, you throw the frisbee, you go, let's go play frisbee boy.

And so you throw the frisbee out there towards the cat,

and it just flies over his head. He doesn't jump for it.

And at this point you're going a little concerned, you're getting a little frustrated.

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