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The One You Feed

Martha Beck on The Path to Your True Self

The One You Feed

Eric Zimmer

Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2022

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Martha Beck is a bestselling author, life coach, and speaker who specializes in helping individuals and groups achieve greater levels of personal and professional success. She is the author of nine nonfiction books and one novel, and has been a longtime contributor to O, The Oprah Magazine. Her most recent book is The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self

Eric and Martha discuss how to live in integrity and find the path to your true self.

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Martha Beck and I Discuss The Path to Your True Self and …

  • Her book, The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self\
  • How what we often want is influenced by our culture
  • Asking ourselves what we yearn for as opposed to what you want
  • The repetitive cycle of thoughts that cause fear
  • How our culture reinforces the fear
  • Learning to move from fear to curiosity
  • How humor and using your senses can turn down our fear
  • The dilemma of when our nature conflicts with our culture
  • Psychological suffering comes from the thoughts we choose to believe
  • Why suffering is needed to make us pay attention and can actually be our ally
  • Understanding that we have different “internal parts” that make up our whole self (Ref. to Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems
  • Her New Year’s resolution to not lie for a year and the healing that she found
  • Navigating her way out of the Mormon religion
  • How switching our identity to a material self to a limitless state of being brings joy
  • Learning to imagine the good that will come from facing our discomfort
  • The power of small, incremental, and repetitive actions to change your life

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Twitter

Facebook

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Byron Katie on The Work

Richard Schwartz on Internal Family Systems

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Transcript

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0:00.0

When our nature goes one direction and our culture goes another,

0:04.8

almost all of us will just sell out our nature hard and go after the culture.

0:10.2

So now we're not one thing. Integrity were two things, duplicity.

0:13.7

There's what's true for us at a very deep level and then there's what we're trying to adapt to.

0:25.7

Welcome to the One You Feed.

0:27.8

Throughout time great thinkers have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have,

0:32.4

quotes like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think, ring true.

0:38.0

And yet for many of us our thoughts don't strengthen or empower us.

0:42.2

We tend to add negativity, self-pity, jealousy or fear.

0:46.9

We see what we don't have instead of what we do.

0:49.8

We think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit.

0:53.4

But it's not just about thinking.

0:55.2

Our actions matter. It takes conscious, consistent and creative effort to make a life worth living.

1:01.5

This podcast is about how other people keep themselves moving in the right direction.

1:05.9

How they feed their good wolf.

1:11.2

Hi, it's Bethany Frankel. My time on the Real Housewives of New York is a few years behind me.

1:26.3

And now I'm ready to put the real back into the Real Housewives.

1:29.7

That's where my new podcast ReWives comes in.

1:32.4

This isn't your typical rewatch podcast. I'm bringing on unexpected thought leaders and

1:36.8

celebrities to give their take on the chaos. In my first episode I dig into the scary island,

1:42.0

Rooney episode with Elizabeth Moss. It's one of my favorite shows I've ever done so don't miss it.

1:48.0

Listen to ReWives with Bethany Frankel on the iHeartRadio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your

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