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Hello and welcome to Anatomy of Marriage, a show that's bringing real help for real couples. I'm your host Melanie Studley.

What's up guys? My name is Seth Studley. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist. Today's topic is pushing my wife away. Let's do this.

Hey, nice new intro there. I like it. Thanks. Why did you do that?

I also have a new slogan that is, we want for your marriage, you listeners, you with the shoulders, what we want for our marriage.

That's right. So, how can we literally go wrong with that? Right? We want to have great relationships, great sex, a lot of money. We want to do what we enjoy. We want good parenting skills with our kids.

All this stuff, we want for your marriage exactly what we want for ours. So, how can you go wrong listening to us? You can't.

That's a great slogan. So, today's listener question was sent in by a listener, and it says, so it's pushing away my wife.

It says, good morning. I've been listening to your show for some time now, and I have to say it has been a blessing. Thank you.

I am wondering if you could offer some insight right now. I feel that I am pushing my wife away. I have trust issues that I thought were resolved but have reappeared.

I know it's pushing, I know I'm pushing my wife away, and I would just like your input as to how to work to make things better and show her that I trust her.

Oh, this is a good one. So, yeah, thanks for the kind words. It's a blessing to be a blessing, right?

And this is interesting because I have a couple of thoughts about this question, and then I'm going to pull a fast one on you. A couple of thoughts about how you may do this in our relationship and how I've done it as well.

Cool. Let's dive into that.

Okay, so, trust issues. First of all, awareness is curative, right? I'd much rather know if I was in the woods hiking.

If there's a bear behind the tree, I would, if I knew it was there, I would go and go, you know, back up your verse, right? Oh, if you know what's there, you can prepare, right? I like that slogan.

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