Yeah, I think one of the things that I've had couples do is, you know, they're trying to be

efficient. So used to, they went, they did all their errands on Saturday morning, their neighbor or

mom or somebody, keep the kids, and they'd go do the errands together, and then maybe have lunch

or get coffee or something on the way. And then all of a sudden they thought, yeah, but we could knock this out so much quicker. If you take this list and I take that list and so you go off that way. Well, great, you were more efficient, but you miss that time. That's me. Miss efficiency. I miss efficiency. I'm thinking, okay, we've got to go here, here, here and here. Okay, if we take this street and get that way, we'll make it in five minutes faster. You've got too many lights this way. Okay, you go to that aisle, I'll go to this aisle, instead of doing it together. Right, right. Do you know that bothers me some? I think I knew that. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, it's like, so I can go down a street and you'll go, why'd you go to that street? Yeah. And I go, well, we can't get there and go, yeah, but that has three lights. If you'd gone that way, there's only two lights and they're not very long lights. I mean, you have a map in your mind of greater Oklahoma City of how many lights are on

each street and all the kinds like that. I do. I think a lot of women do that. Men just don't care how fast

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When's the last time you actually had some with your spouse?

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We love having fun.

We've done a pretty good job of that. So that may be something we're semi-experts on. But let's kind of jump into it because, you know, it's interesting so many times in counseling, I'll ask a couple what they do for fun, and they can't think of anything. Really? say, well, what did you do when you're dating?

Oh my gosh, they've got all kinds of answers

that they'll come up with.

And so I think it's something we'd just

get busy and we get loose track, but let's just kind of get into that. So do you think there was a

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