If you think this is a good idea, I've given you my advice, that's the most I can do.

After that, you have to make a choice. And whatever choice you make, I will support you.

And if this choice ends up being bad, then I will never bring up.

Hey, I remember I told you not to?

Ugly or good doesn't matter, but you have to put it all out.

Okay.

Because you need that from your spouse, and your spouse needs that from you. We have to shepherd our children, but then we cannot engineer our children.

Oh. I want to ask that giving space, is it meaning that giving the chance and be around the person we love to fail.

When they fail and they have failure and then they hit the lock bottom, is giving space, meaning like not giving them what they want,

but B is always surrounding them when they have troubles?

Yes, yes.

And if you see that they're headed towards failure,

part of your honesty is I think you're headed towards failure.

But this is a choice you have to make and whether or not you succeed,

I just want you to know that I will support you and I'm, because Allah has given you the right to try.

So I'm not going to take that right from me.

I'll take this even personal.

If my daughter said she wants to marry some young man, right? Then I will say, let me talk to him, let me talk to the family, I'll give my opinion.

I think this is a good decision, I think it's a bad decision.

But at the end of the day, my daughter's an adult, isn't she?

So I'm going to say, you have to make this choice.

If you think this is a good idea, I've given you you my advice that's the most I can do after that you have to make a choice

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