Hi folks. This episode of Bewilded is all about how we consciously structure our lives, not with rigid rules, but with rhythm.

Whether you're moving house as we are, turning 45 as it turns out I am, or just realizing your schedule isn't working anymore. We're exploring

what it means to design a life that fits you in the long term and the short term. Yeah, so we'll

talk about how change, especially disruptive change in your life, can actually be a really

great opportunity to reset your habits, even your whole way of being,

and how you can map your life, not by looking at some cultural checklist,

but by listening to your own inner rhythms and the rhythms of the natural world as well.

Also, our daughter is currently marrying multiple sentient beings, so clearly something

about the way we're living is rubbing off positively. Okay, stick around. This one's about

making a life that's just structured enough to hold your dreams without boxing you in.

Hope you enjoy it. So as some of you listeners may know,

a few months ago, Roe and I started something called the Wilder Community, which is kind of an

online village where people like us who want to find our true nature, even if it peels us

away from culture, can get together, commune, make friends and do things.

We have all kinds of regular events in there that are just so fun.

We have a weekly hang where we get together and we have conversation.

We make art in our own little rooms, in our own little places, but all together.

There are group meditations that Martha

leads that are crazy powerful. And there are just all kinds of monthly themes and like personal

development stuff that we work through together and just a hive of activity and connection

among really wonderful people. Yeah, so if you're feeling

drawn to belong to a community in these troubled times, give Wilder a try. It's at wildercom.

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