Manu Kapur on Embracing Failure to Enhance Your Negotiation Tactics
Negotiate Anything
American Negotiation Institute
4.7 • 748 Ratings
🗓️ 29 November 2024
⏱️ 30 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | In the work that I do, there's a big difference between learning and performance. |
| 0:04.0 | And the idea is that sometimes you're engaged in activities where performance and learning are, they're couple. |
| 0:10.2 | They're very tightly coupled. |
| 0:11.2 | So, for example, experts in the zone. |
| 0:13.2 | You know, you see them performing really well, and they're taking on tough challenges, and they're learning. |
| 0:17.4 | But there are also cases where performance initially suffers, but you're doing something, |
| 0:22.4 | you're struggling with something, you're potentially even failing, but there's the locus of deep |
| 0:26.4 | learning is right there, right? So the performance and learning are not always aligned. You can think of them |
| 0:32.2 | as orthogonal vectors. And you asked about the mindset, right, is to not always conflate performance with learning. |
| 0:39.8 | Because sometimes if you take on tough challenges, like a tough negotiate, like a tough challenging |
| 0:45.0 | conversation, know that going in that your learning and performance may not be aligned. |
| 0:49.9 | In fact, you may not perform very well, but that experience of taking on that challenge, |
| 0:56.2 | of putting yourself in that zone where your performance might suffer, actually creates the |
| 1:01.9 | conditions. |
| 1:02.7 | This is what the science of productive energy says. |
| 1:04.8 | It creates the necessary conditions for you to then learn from. |
| 1:09.3 | So I guess the message to people is, whichever situation |
| 1:13.0 | you're going into, try to think about this learning, not contributing learning with performance, |
| 1:17.9 | because there's always a chance that productive failure might be at work and work for you. |
| 1:23.7 | Hey, I'm Kwame Christian, and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything, |
| 1:28.8 | the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier |
| 1:34.6 | while getting more of what you want in the process. |
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