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today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focus on the family dot com slash

marriage podcast. One of the best things about being married is developing a

shared sense of humor together and over time you learn to appreciate what your

spouse thinks is funny and my girls would say my dear wife thinks I am funny

just to the core. They think if I read the weather to Dean issue it left and I

do make a goal of mine every day if I can to get Dean it to laugh because I love

hearing her laugh. I'm John Fuller joined by Aaron and Greg Smalley in the

studio. They're in charge of the marriage team here at focus on the family and

Greg how can laughter help a couple especially if they're prone to fighting a

lot? Yeah laughter can help during conflict it can also make it worse so you've

got a real weapon wise exactly I remember one time Aaron had asked me to make

sure that I put some raw chicken we just cook some things and so there's a

little bit of chicken left over she said now make sure that you clean it up she

had to to leave with our older daughters they were gonna go do something so I'm

like yeah I got it why forget so my youngest daughter and I are just down playing

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