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today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focus on the family dot com slash

marriage podcast. There's so many wonderful aspects to marriage and surely the

sexual aspect of your marriage is one of the greatest gifts. But when you and

your spouse talk about that topic, it's important to do so with love and grace.

I'm John Fuller along with the couple who's in charge of our marriage team

here at focus on the family. Dr. Greg Smolley and his wife Aaron and Aaron, you

work with couples. How often do you find that to be a problem for couples? Yeah I

would say very common. It's it's actually more common that there is a struggle

sexually than not. I would say I would put it up there at like 80 85% of

couples that come in. There's some sort of sexual struggle and it's looking at

there's differing desires and you know maybe there's a disinterest and I

feel betrayed or I feel alone in this like you're not interested in me. But you

know there's deeper things going on. So it's important that we take time to

really explore that and discuss it. Granted like we talked about in an earlier

episode, it's often hard and difficult to bring it up and to to say you know

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