Making Dua for Him to Marry You

Mindful Muslimah Speaks

Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 851 Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Making dua for the specific man you want to marry requires both courage and surrender. Today, we explore how to transform your intense longing for one person into a reality if its good for you and to ensure your happiness. - Acknowledging the reality of specific attraction without shame

- Transforming obsessive thoughts into structured spiritual practice

- Preparing yourself to be ready for him while accepting divine redirection

- Understanding when fixation becomes a spiritual obstacle

- Maintaining dignity and spiritual integrity in the process

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0:00.0	I'm going to tell you in the nicest way possible, you need to stop.
0:04.0	Yes, I'm talking to you, the one who keeps making da'a, da'a, da'a, for that same guy.
0:09.0	Be careful, be careful.
0:11.0	Let me tell you why.
0:12.0	Because you don't actually know if he's good for you.
0:14.0	You just think he is, want him in your heart, but Allah's upana and Allah,
0:18.0	he can see five, ten years into the future. I have a lot of sisters tell me they made the same mistake and had no idea it was coming
0:24.6	next.
0:25.6	But here's what you do.
0:26.6	If you do want to have him, you still want to make do a up from him, you still want to, you
0:28.6	know, put something forward for him, but you also want to make sure that you protect
0:32.6	your heart.
0:33.6	Because here's what nobody tells you about making the a specific guy. It's not about saying the right thing or doing the right thing to attract him. It's about making sure what is
0:41.8	supposed to happen is aligned with Allah's plan in your heart. You know that moment you see
0:46.9	his name pop up on the screen, of course if you're in halal situation only? Or when you analyze
0:51.6	every single situation to see if he's actually aligned with you and
0:54.5	he wants to be with you too and marry you too.
0:57.9	That's not something to be ashamed of.
0:59.5	It's totally natural to want to be attracted to someone, want to have someone who's aligned
1:05.3	with you and actually feel like that's the person who went to marry for the rest of your
1:08.6	life.
1:09.6	But what isn't okay, what isn't okay, be careful, is trying to force something because you really want it bad. That
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