Majoring on the Minors

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door

Documentary, Society & Culture

4.6 • 626 Ratings

🗓️ 12 January 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

In this episode we unpack the phenomenon of 'staring at a pebble while the parade passes by'....otherwise known as 'majoring on the minors' or being distracted from what really matters by details that are irrelevant to the central message. Updated since we have to triple and quadruple think every single word and sentence

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Kate. And I'm Lori. We've always thought that the most compelling story
0:09.8	strikes the perfect balance between an honest look at the mess of life and the humor that can be found in the mess.
0:14.9	To be perfectly honest, we don't really know how to live life without both the humor and the authenticity.
0:20.1	Our podcast might be a little bit of whiplash at times. We can spin from hard, We don't really know how to live life without both the humor and the authenticity.
0:23.5	Our podcast might be a little bit of whiplash at times.
0:27.2	We can spin from hard and deep to humor and laughing on a dime.
0:31.6	The hard will be really hard and the truths we share are the ugliest of humanity.
0:36.1	We don't intend to make it seem like it's all fine or to pretty up the pain.
0:38.4	But we also know that the joy we found is all the more profound because of the pain. So we hope you can stick with us through the ugly
0:43.7	because there will also be joy and hope and humor. Welcome to the ugly truth about the girl
0:48.8	next door. Hi, welcome back to our podcast, the Ugly Truths about the Girl Next Door.
0:58.2	I'm Kate.
0:58.9	And I'm Lori.
1:00.0	And we are back.
1:02.5	Today we want to go back and review kind of the concept of Darbo, which is a phenomenon that we did an episode about early on.
1:11.3	But given, you know, just current updates and current circumstances, we feel like it's
1:16.0	appropriate to kind of go back and take a look at that.
1:20.8	Okay, so what does Darvo stand for?
1:23.6	Okay, so Darvo is D, deny that the abuse ever happened.
1:30.3	A, attack the victim. And then RVO is reverse the roles of victim and offender. And we've talked about Darvo a lot.
1:36.9	Yeah. Oh, yeah. Mostly be, so Darvo wasn't even a thing that you knew anything about as you
1:42.4	were living through a ton of Darvo in your life. Yeah. Not until the podcast. No, definitely. I think it was actually from that Instagram
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