LYL #023: Stay out of the how (at least at first)
Love Your Life + Law of Attraction
Jennifer Bailey
4.9 • 806 Ratings
🗓️ 4 June 2018
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Today we're going to talk about embracing what you want—and being absolutely OK with not knowing how you'll get it.
This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…
- Your three options when you want something—any goal or shiny penny—but don't know how to get it
- Why prematurely focusing on how is a really flawed and faulty approach to getting what you want
- How you might be extinguishing desire with doubt and talking yourself out of what you really want
- The pitfalls of getting specific too quickly and narrowly focusing on the how of what you want
- My exhausting stint as a Martian and the joylessness of forced action
- The less manual, more magical way of getting what you want—even when you don't know the exact steps from A to Z
For all things Law of Attraction, visit Jennifer365.com. Â
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love Your Life with Law of Attraction. |
| 0:25.6 | I'm your host Jennifer Bailey, and this podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and |
| 0:31.9 | add more joy to your life. |
| 0:34.9 | Today, we're going to talk about embracing what you want and being absolutely okay |
| 0:40.8 | with not knowing how you'll get it. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn your three |
| 0:46.8 | options when you want something, any goal or shiny penny, but don't know how to get it. Why |
| 0:52.9 | prematurely focusing on how is a really flawed and |
| 0:57.5 | faulty approach to getting what you want, how you might be extinguishing desire with doubt and |
| 1:05.0 | talking yourself out of what you really want. You're going to learn the pitfalls of getting specific too quickly |
| 1:12.2 | and narrowly focusing on the how of what you want. I'm going to share my exhausting stent as a |
| 1:19.8 | Martian and the joylessness of forced action. And last but not least, you'll learn the less |
| 1:26.0 | manual and more magical way of getting what you want, |
| 1:30.4 | even when you don't know the exact steps from A to Z. If you're enjoying the show and would also like |
| 1:37.4 | to read or have a reference of the episodes, check out my Law of Attraction series. For every 10 episodes of the podcast, I publish a book. |
| 1:47.7 | To find out more, go to Jennifer365.com forward slash books. Each volume is available as a physical book |
| 1:55.6 | or on Kindle. I offer schedule as you want coaching. If you want personalized guidance on applying law of attraction, |
| 2:05.2 | book your session at Jennifer 365.com forward slash coaching. And now on to the episode. |
| 2:20.7 | Hello and welcome to Love Your Life. |
| 2:23.4 | Today we're going to talk about how often and how easily you can talk yourself out of |
| 2:29.3 | something you want. |
| 2:30.6 | And it's all because you focus too soon on the how. Abraham says, don't talk yourself out of wanting |
| 2:38.4 | something just because you haven't figured out how to get it. Brilliant. But that's exactly what a lot of |
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