Welcome to You Are Not Broken, the only podcast that combines science, medicine, and psychology, to re-educate your brain and help you live your best-to-love life.

And I'm your host, Ford Certified Female Urologist, Dr. Casperson.

Okay, guys, I am here today with Jen Mason, owner of the sex boutique wink wink, and today's topic is lubrications.

So I had my big, one of the things that actually got me started in doing the podcast and doing the

education that I do is that in one week two women came into my

clinic and I'm a surgeon for people who don't know that came into my clinic for pain with sex

which is a condition that I treat and I always start with the basics and I say I asked him well what

lube do you use and neither one of them used any lubrication and I'm, if we don't start with the basics on friction and pain,

you know, we've got to start with the basics.

And my other thought of that was like, oh my gosh,

these women had to make it all the way to a surgeon to have somebody talk to them about loop, right?

Like what a bunch of missed opportunities for everybody else,

including society, to tell these women that

lube is incredibly normal.

Not only normal, it's in the majority.

The majority of people use lubrication with sex.

So that was like two in one week.

And, you know, people were like, well, of course, but, you know, certain generations didn't

know about lube.

And it's like, no, no, no, one one of these women were she was like 23 years old so we

can't just blame the fact on kind of generational ignorance with this so today I needed to dedicate a topic

just to normalize lube and to talk about like it's an entire industry is what I always say like

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