This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to the Authentic Sex Podcast, episode number 33.

My name's Juliet.

I'm your host and I'm a sexologist, a sex coach and a tantra practitioner.

And I guess my mission is just to reach as many people as possible with modern day sex education and um tantric teachings and just

empower people to live a really authentic sex life and own their sexuality own their

desires so if you're listening to this um i hope you get heaps out of this podcast. If you are a new

time listener, go back and listen to all the other episodes if you are enjoying this one. So today

we're talking about loving domination and sweet surrender.

And you may be wondering what the hell that means.

Others listening may know exactly what that means.

So I'm going to explore the topic a little bit today and freestyle in what I say.

This is a topic that is something I'm really interested in because

I personally love feeling like my partner has the has it in him or in the past in her, um, to dominate me.

And it doesn't have to be like an everyday occasion,

but I really enjoy that part of sex and I enjoy the polarity between domination and

submission and so yeah, it's something that I really enjoy and I know a lot of other people do too

there can be a lot of shame around enjoying taking control of someone and there can also be a lot of

shame in knowing that you get turned on by

someone being really controlling and dominating and therefore if there's shame you perhaps avoid

playing out these roles in sex or you do them and then feel a shitload of

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