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🗓️ 4 August 2022
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How to assess emotional unavailability
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0:00.0 | Good evening, everybody. Welcome to the show. We got a great show plan for you. As always, no surprise. We always bring it, right? |
0:06.8 | Got the DMs open. DMs where you put your questions, topics you want us to hit, something you want us to circle back, drop deeper into. |
0:13.4 | I'm going to talk about, I laugh because there's something funny about the simplicity of this, but it ruins many lives, |
0:23.1 | really takes a toll on many people's mental health, signs that someone's may be unavailable. Uh, it's love line. We got to talk |
0:27.4 | about sex, dating and relationships. And as always, um, even if you don't relate directly to |
0:32.2 | the topic, there's takeaways for everyone. So I'll try to kind of round it out. We always use |
0:36.7 | topics as an entry point. |
0:39.3 | I was laughing because one of the things I said to a friend who I'm helping process, you know, |
0:45.7 | a relationship they're in because the blessing and the curse of me doing the work I do as a |
0:50.7 | certified sex and relationship therapist is that everyone wants, you know, |
0:55.0 | to steal a few minutes of my time complimented, has also helped me. And here's something |
0:59.9 | else for everyone listening to kind of internalize as well, helped me learn boundaries and really |
1:05.4 | letting people know what I'm available for, what I have the time and energy for. And often having |
1:09.3 | to say to people, hey, unfortunately, |
1:11.1 | I don't have the energy of the space for that tonight, but maybe tomorrow or this weekend, |
1:14.2 | we can sit down and process it. |
1:15.9 | I've had a very long day because I think sometimes people forget that I've done that for |
1:19.8 | probably eight hours that day and then a few hours of radio and my, you know, 10, 11 or 12 |
1:24.9 | hour a day, there just isn't that much more space. |
1:27.8 | You know, I got to eat. |
1:28.8 | I might need to actually even take a shower at some point, you know. |
1:32.1 | So it's about a lot of boundary setting. |
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