It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with an interesting and unique episode of Women of Impact today about infidelity, taking a deep dive into both sides of a relationship when infidelity and cheating occurs. From the outside they looked like a perfect couple, but the reality was that behind closed doors, Sam was addicted to porn, cheating on his wife Nia, and lying to her DAILY.  Now, if you’re not familiar with Sam & Nia, they have a HUGE YouTube following for their Christian family channel, and about 10 years ago, Sam’s name was leaked as a user of the marriage affairs dating website, Ashley Madison.  Now if you’re scratching your head thinking “that couple can’t POSSIBLY still be together”, think again homie!! Not only are Sam & Nia still together, they agree their relationship is BETTER today than it ever was before Nia found out about Sam’s secrets and lies!!  But that didn’t come easy, it took hard work, and in this interview Sam & Nia are answering alllll of my questions about how they went from the truth coming out, to where they are now – nearly 10 years later and STILL married – through the eyes of Sam, the cheater, and Nia, the powerful, strong, badass wife and life partner that stayed.  We also talk about:  - What went through Sam’s head when he was lying  - How Nia ignored her gut instincts that something was “off” in their relationship - The steps they took to process their emotions after Nia found out the truth - What they EACH had to do to fight for their marriage, forgive, heal, and actually improve their relationship So if you’ve been in a situation where you have been betrayed, and you’re questioning if you should fight for the relationship or leave, this episode is for you!!  A betrayal can either break you or make you stronger. Only you know what is right for you, but hopefully listening to this will help you make the decision that you think is best for you and your relationship.  Follow Sam & Nia: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samandnia YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@samandnia Order “Live in Truth ”: https://a.co/d/8TaJiUc Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/ Go to https://lumen.me and use code NYBBS to get $50 off your Lumen.  o to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices