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U Up?

Love, Limerence, And Cop Outs ft. Olivia O’Brien

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2024

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

J&J are joined by Olivia O’Brien ahead of the release for her upcoming EP, “Love and Limerence,” but before they get started, Jordana and Olivia fill Jared in on what limerence means. Then, Olivia shares the struggles with being vulnerable in her songwriting and dating other public figures, and Jared can relate for why he’s cautious with the real experiences he puts into his work. Plus Olivia shocks J&J with the aftermath of her song with gnash, “i hate u, i love u,” blowing up on the charts in 2016, they talk double standards of women being vulnerable, the difference in LA and NYC social scenes, and why Gen Z might be more open to casual relationships. The episode ends with answering a listener’s email about being on the hook and not knowing whether she should just walk away before she gets hurt. She’s been happily seeing someone for two months, but he’s now up for a job that would take him overseas indefinitely. They have yet to DTR, but she’s certain she doesn’t want to juggle a long-distance situation. Jared, Jordana and Olivia weigh in. For more from our guest, listen to “Love and Limerence” by Olivia O’Brien (@oliviaobrien) on June 21. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the Sunday special episode of the

0:05.1

you a podcast I'm Tradonna Abraham and I am

0:07.3

Jared Freed it is a Sunday special we love a Sunday special but it's

0:10.8

extra special today because we have a extra special

0:13.2

guest. Musician, recording artist, singer, songwriter, Olivia O'Brien, thank you

0:20.0

for coming on. Thanks for having me. It's great to see it. Good to be seen.

0:25.0

Okay. Do you feel seen? Good start for us. Always running smoothly.

0:31.0

How? You got an out EP coming out June 21st, love and limerants, we were just talking before, I have no idea what

0:37.6

limerants is.

0:38.6

Yes.

0:39.6

And you don't know what an EP is.

0:40.6

Didn't know what an EP, okay, well, Olivia, it's gonna be between us.

0:44.0

Don't know anything.

0:45.0

I know nothing, okay?

0:46.4

I'm a big idiot.

0:47.5

What is Love and Limerance?

0:49.2

It's two out, two tracks are out already.

0:51.4

Yeah.

0:52.4

So you can go listen on Spotify anywhere, you go listen to music.

0:54.5

But what is, what is the song about and what is

0:58.4

Limerance for people who don't know, including Jared?

1:01.5

Limerance is kind of, it's kind of become a tick-talk buzzword as we were talking about earlier.

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