All right, Gary, today we're going to be talking about love languages. And Jess and I were actually

just talking about this eating dinner before this podcast today. And I asked her what her love

language was. And I already knew, and that's quality time. And then I said, Jess, what's my love language? And she's like, I know I knew this. I know I know this. But I forget. I'm like, aha, that's the problem with the love languages. Everyone always knows their own love language, but they forget their partner's love languages. That is a pattern I've noticed many times in love languages. And honestly,

I actually forgot her love language. Maybe we're just a terrible couple. I don't know. You tell

me. But Gary, I have known you for a very long time at this point. I don't even know your love

language, dude. What's yours? I would say, I don't, I'm not even sure I know mine.

I mean, it's like, you know, you know like you know like you kind of figured out maybe like I've actually never bothered to figure out because

you know as we're kind of get into it's like you know we talk about different titles for this

podcast and one of them we threw around was like our love language is for real like they might

be BS and so I've

never actually taken the plunge to figure out my love language but I think when you're asking your

partner about it one about you know trying to figure out what your partner is one of the hard things is

like just remembering what they all are right so there's five love languages um it's probably worth

you know if you gave you gave a multiple choice question you would

probably get that answer right i i would guess just by kind of knowing your partner so well yeah but so

you know just just for the record the five love languages are um and this is actually an order

there's a very recent study just came out in 2022 um this is the ranked order of what people were the most so the most

common love language people have is quality time so that's like how much time you spend

together listening communicating that kind of thing so that's the most popular love language

number two is physical touch I don't think I need to explain that one. Three is acts of service. So like doing things for your partner, running errands, helping them out with things around the house or just, you know, running an errand for them, going to grab something at the store. Number four is words of affirmation. Words of affirmation is just, you know, complimentinging them showing appreciation um and then the last one

is that's me by the way give me some love anytime and that you'll have my heart i'm words of affirmation

all day long but i think most men are words of affirmation i just have a theory on that so sorry i didn't

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