Love Languages and Sexual Attraction #677

Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Christianity

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🗓️ 22 May 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr Corey and Pam discuss the importance of flexibility in marriage and how it relates to facing and dealing with reality.

We explore the concept of love languages and how they may not always lead to more desire or passion in a relationship. What is the difference between being a good companion and being a good lover?

And what's the role of presence and initiation in igniting sexual attraction?

Takeaways

Flexibility is crucial in marriage as it allows couples to face and adjust to the realities of life.
Love languages are important for connection and relationship maintenance, but they may not always lead to sexual desire.
Being a good companion is different from being a good lover, and both aspects are important in a relationship.
Creating an environment that fosters intimacy and desire requires self-awareness, presence, and initiation.
Vacations can ignite passion and desire due to the change in scenery, routine, and relaxation, but it's important to understand and replicate the factors that contribute to the spark at home.
On the Xtended Version ...

What make vulnerability in marriage so difficult?

Is it the motivations behind the vulnerability? I think yes.

Let's explore more.

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another episode of Sex and Marriage Radio.
0:04.0	Alongside my wife Pam
0:06.0	having conversations about life and love and marriage and sex and it's interesting
0:12.1	because a little bit of behind the scenes if you will you know life
0:18.6	is what happens when you're making other plans you know and that's where we've've kind of come with that mindset of how do you try to remain flexible.
0:27.0	If you do make plans, how do you make sure they're in pencil?
0:30.0	Because circumstances and life happen, which require us to either stick our head in the
0:38.2	sand and act like it's not happening or face it and adjust and be flexible.
0:43.6	I vote for facing it and adjusting.
0:45.4	I think in the absolutely in the long run that is the route to go and to choose.
0:50.4	Yeah.
0:51.4	Because if nothing else you get better and you face life on life terms better
0:54.8	which is a lot of what's required in marriage is a lot of what's required in
0:57.5	sex actually these are things we've used throughout the life of Sexy Marriage Radio,
1:04.0	which is, you could sum it up in some ways of it's
1:07.0	facing and dealing with the spouse you have,
1:08.9	not the one you wish you had.
1:10.6	Okay.
1:12.0	I mean, that seems to ring true to me at least, so welcome to the show.
1:15.0	It does. Sounds more like it's dealing with my spouse rather than me, though, which I think is more of our focus of dealing with me.
1:22.0	But we'll move on that's just the details.
1:25.2	That's a fair that's a fair exploration real quick because it's still part of dealing with me
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