Love Even When You Don't Feel Like It | Ep. 442
Awesome Marriage Podcast
Dr. Kim Kimberling
4.9 • 813 Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2020
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
Today we are talking all about loving our spouse even when we don't FEEL it. Is it okay if we don't "feel the love" for our spouse? Does it even matter, as long as we are still committed to each other? Today Dr. Kim and Christina will address "that lovin' feeling" in marriage. They talk about whether they have ever lost those feelings in their own marriages, what to do if that happens to you, and practical ways to help bring the love back into your marriage today.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast, a place for honest conversations about marriage and |
| 0:06.8 | practical advice on how to build an awesome marriage. |
| 0:10.1 | I am your co-host, Christina Dodson. |
| 0:12.2 | On the show will be our host, Dr. Kim Kimberling. |
| 0:15.0 | Dr. Kim is a marriage counselor and has been married for over 50 years. |
| 0:18.7 | His passion is to help you strengthen your most intimate relationship. |
| 0:26.6 | Well, today we're going to be talking about loving our spouse even when we don't feel like it. |
| 0:32.1 | So Dr. Cam, why does the feeling of love often stop in marriage? |
| 0:38.3 | You know, I think probably a lot of reasons. |
| 0:40.3 | It's, God gave us a lot of different feelings. |
| 0:42.3 | And I think we see pretty easily in other feelings that they can come and go. |
| 0:46.3 | I mean, we're not angry all the time. |
| 0:48.3 | We're not happy all the time. |
| 0:50.3 | And so because we don't feel that love all the time, |
| 0:52.3 | doesn't mean we don't love our spouse. |
| 0:54.6 | It just means that sometimes the feeling is not there. |
| 0:57.1 | And I think so many times we base what love is on the feeling as opposed to the other things |
| 1:03.1 | of it. |
| 1:03.5 | It's a commitment. |
| 1:04.8 | It's that long-term feeling that we have for someone. |
| 1:09.9 | But the highs and lows. |
| 1:11.2 | And the problem is we all, there's nothing better than the feeling of love when you're |
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