Welcome to the Art of Accomplishment, where we explore how deepening connection with ourselves and others leads to creating the life we want with enjoyment and ease.

I'm Brett Kisler, here today with my co-host, Joe Hudson.

All right. So, Joe, there's a common pattern that we see when we're working with people that is around obligation or responsibility. And just yesterday, I saw you work with somebody in a rapid fire coaching session and handled this really beautifully. And I'd love to explore the topic more deeply.

Yeah, that sounds great.

Awesome.

Yeah.

Okay, so I want to start with a two-minute clip from yesterday's coaching session.

Hi.

Hi.

Yeah.

You know, I seem to be on the cusp of everything I could want and hope for.

Oh, great.

The patterns of obligation and responsibility probably intertwined with fear and a scarcity mindset just seemed to get in the way.

You know, my specific question would be around, why can't I finish up with a divorce?

But the same patterns apply sometimes in work and everything else.

Where does obligation sit in your body?

Chest.

Great.

Upper arms.

Feel it for a minute?

And what happens if you're just like,

if you see that as the part of you that never got loved? Yep. And love it. I can get to

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