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Lori Gottlieb: ...we all struggle with the same things at our core

Nobody Told Me!

Nobody Told Me!

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.2671 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2019

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

What happens when the therapist becomes the patient? Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist, New York Times bestselling author, and national advice columnist who joins us to talk about what happened when she had a life crisis and decided she needed to seek help herself.  Lori's latest book is called Maybe You Should Talk To Someone:  A therapist, HER therapist and Our Lives Revealed.   |  We'd like to thank our sponsor, Smart & Sexy, for this episode! For 30% off your first order, go to http://www.smartandsexy.com and enter promo code 'nobodytoldme' at checkout.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Nobody Told Me. I'm Jan Black. And I'm Laura Owens. On this episode, we welcome

0:18.0

psychotherapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb to the show.

0:22.5

Lori is the author of several books, the latest of which is called Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, a therapist, her therapist, and Our Lives Revealed.

0:31.4

Lori, thank you so much for joining us.

0:33.5

It's my pleasure.

0:35.0

Your latest book takes readers into both your therapy office where you see

0:39.7

patients and into your own therapist's office where you landed after a crisis. Tell us more about

0:45.4

how the book came about. So it wasn't like I woke up one day and said, I'm going to write about

0:51.3

my experience in therapy. Right. It was, it was very much, I was supposed to be writing a different book, which was a book about happiness.

1:01.1

And I was just starting out my career as a therapist.

1:06.3

And the more I saw what was going on in the room and in people's lives, the more I felt like the book

1:12.8

that I was writing wasn't really getting it what I wanted to say about the human experience

1:18.7

and what we all go through and what our struggles are like. And so I thought I would rather

1:25.2

bring people into the therapy room and let them see firsthand what was going on.

1:29.2

But I also felt that it would be a little bit disingenuous if I showed what was going on with my

1:35.6

patients, but I didn't really present myself as a normal human being, that I was the expert up on high.

1:43.2

And I really wanted to show that we're all

1:45.8

more the same than we are different. And the only way I felt I could really do that was by bringing

1:50.7

people into both experiences. You say that your greatest credential isn't your degrees or your

1:57.0

years of training, but the fact that you're a card-carrying member of the human race,

2:01.5

I love that.

2:02.7

Why is simply knowing what it's like to be a person struggles and highs and everything

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