Looking Directly at Death Made Her More Alive Than Ever | ft. Darlene Cordero HTS #483

Heal Thy Self with Dr. G

Wellness Loud

Alternative Health, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2026

⏱️ 68 minutes

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0:00.0	It's not just mine, but it's ancestral, and it's all to do with the woman, which are giving, giving, giving, and not receiving at the core.
0:08.5	My grandmother had the same, like we literally have been repeating the same thing with men, like for generations, with my great-grandmother.
0:17.7	Men leaving, other men coming to come in, but there's that wound,
0:21.6	and then there's a disconnect on who's the parent, who's in charge, and then the woman having
0:27.6	to take on the roles of the masculine and the family.
0:30.6	What if it's been living in your family for generations, waiting for someone to finally break it?
0:35.6	My guest today, Darlene Cordero, was diagnosed with stage zero breast cancer, and she did
0:40.7	everything right.
0:41.9	And then years later, she was blindsided by a stage four diagnosis that spread to her liver.
0:47.6	Doctors could not explain it, but she could.
0:49.7	Because weeks before that diagnosis, she lost her father, and then one month after that, her
0:54.1	godmother was murdered.
0:55.2	And what happened inside of her body after all of that is really what we're getting into today.
0:59.6	Darlene is now a death dula, a cancer thriver, and one of the most grounded, radically honest,
1:05.6	authentic human beings alive. And in this conversation, she shared a message that stopped me
1:09.8	cold in my tracks. In a
1:11.6	medicine journey, she heard the words, you are the sacrifice. What did that mean? What does it
1:17.4	really mean? We talk about generational wounds hiding inside disease. We talk about why the women in your
1:22.7	lineage might be carrying something in their bodies that was never theirs to carry alone.
1:27.5	And we talk about why all of us need to learn how to directly look at death because it
1:31.7	could be the most life-giving thing that you can ever do.
1:34.7	This is not a sad episode.
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