Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to talk to you about logic versus emotion in dating.

Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide.

It's called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. There's going to be a

link for that in the show notes. And in addition to that, I have a dating course called the

Solution to Dating Anxiety. And it's designed to help you with those

anxious feelings that you get when he hasn't texted you back in like four minutes and you're

freaking out. And if you don't want to have that kind of experience with dating, I would also

recommend that you check out the link in the show notes with more information.

So I had a client session today with a person who had just had a dating experience where things progressed really quickly. She was dating a few people and then she met him. She was like,

oh my gosh, like he just blows everybody out of the water and he's everything that I was looking for and I'm going all

in and they were having really great long talks and they just had really great chemistry and then

it ended just a day or two ago. And so in this situation, I told her, based on some of the information, she shared that I don't

think there was long-term potential with this person anyways because there were some red flags there,

but we should still look at it and see what we can learn going forward because I also picked up

a few things that she was doing that would not benefit her going forward in

future dating situations. So one of those things was kind of rushing the process and going all in

and not dating other people too soon and that kind of stuff that we've spoken about on the

podcast before. And we were exploring why she did that. And it basically came down to

the battle between logic and emotion. Because she was telling me, well, this guy was so excited about him.

And like, I know now that it's okay for me to feel anxious and it's okay for me to get invested and excited

about people and to feel my emotions and it's a good thing to care about dating situations.

And I was like, yeah, all of that is so true.

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