Locktober: How to Do Chastity Play Safely

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica answer listener questions covering intimate challenges from anal play to mismatched libidos. The episode addresses a woman whose boyfriend wants to try receiving anal rimming but can't relax into it, examining masculinity myths around pleasure. They cover penis cage safety during chastity play and what to watch for during extended use. Listeners also hear from a woman whose partner never initiates sex despite therapy, someone experiencing numbness during oral sex, and a recently divorced woman struggling to reclaim her sex drive. Throughout, Emily emphasizes communication outside the bedroom, understanding our bodies' responses, and reclaiming sexuality as something we own for ourselves—not something tied exclusively to our partners. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:15 - Helping Your Partner Feel Comfortable with Anal Play 6:38 - Penis Cage Safety & Chastity Play Guidelines 13:49 - When Your Partner Never Initiates Sex 18:45 - Numbness & Tingling During Oral Sex Explained 23:07 - Reclaiming Your Sex Drive After Divorce

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1:37.0	and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
1:41.3	You asked and were answering. In today's episode, producer Erica and I are
1:45.5	diving into your hotline calls and emails, and as always, you guys delivered. We're talking about
1:50.7	how to help your partner feel comfortable receiving anal rimming when they've asked for it,
1:55.0	but can't quite relax into the experience. We're covering penis cage safety for those exploring
2:00.3	chastity play. Because yes, we need to talk about the risks. We're covering penis cage safety for those exploring chastity play. Because yes,
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