I always had something tied to my giving.

And as my mom got older, it really became a problem

that the most kind, generous people didn't have a lot,

especially financially.

And my mom's one of those people.

And it's a blessing to me because I wanted to be rich to take care of my mom

and I can do and take care of my mom whatever she needs whatever call she

gives me I know I can afford to take care of her and it's a biggest blessing

of my life but I really was wondering like why is it that so many moms teachers first responders United States

vets these really kind people doctors they give their entire life to other people and they don't end up with much when they get older.

And so I've had this infinite loop of giving that I want to share again.

And I know if you've heard it before,

hopefully it'll resonate a little different

or sink in.

But the idea is the more you give, the more you're given. not the more you receive. So the first step is to you

have to elevate your awareness when you're talking to people that you're not being

punished, you're being given something.

So your evaluation of outcomes in your life is not a punishment just because it's not what you

thought you wanted or it actually feels like a punishment.

And so it takes a lot of awareness

to find the lesson in when we're given something.

Because immediately try to say,

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