Why would someone actively choose to be a part of a community that is targeted so heavily

and less it is who they are and that living in that disconnected feeling is more painful and

hurtful and detrimental to them

than living as a target.

All right guys, how are you? Welcome back! I'm good. I am prepping for

Thanksgiving, mostly, like, mentally, you know. we're doing three this year which is a lot.

Your what? I'm doing three Thanksgiving. Oh my gosh three Thanksgiving and so I'm going to my aunt's house and then I'm going to my cousin's house and then I'm going to Billy's

parents house for dessert. I was like we can't eat any more food like I'm not going to eat any like,

say I'm not eating any food there.

So it's going to be a lot.

I'm already stressed out about it,

especially because the last two years

our Thanksgiving's have been so like mellow with my family yeah yeah yeah

he is hell I get it which I prefer we're going to Joe's brother's house

he just moved into like a new I guess like guess like a little townhouse kind of situation

so they wanted to do it there and I was like all right I'll give you guys that

I didn't I didn't want to do anything anyway I didn't really want to cook this year or anything.

And I figured by next year I'll be in we'll be in the new house so I want to do

Thanksgiving and I want to do Christmas. So I was like, I'll give everybody else the holidays

to host this year, and then next year I really

want to host in the new house, like just pack it up in there.

But I'm cute, that's really fun. I'm excited me and Joe were at

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