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In the New Testament, Paul wrote, whatever you do, work heartily as for the Lord and not for man.

And there's a general principle, I think that we like to hold up, which is my

audience is God. He's who I want to please. But there's no doubt we want to please others as well.

And if you're married, you want to please your spouse. So what to do with all that? I'm John Fuller,

joined by Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife, Aaron, from the Focus on the Family Marriage Team. And Greg, how do I know if my primary motivation is pleasing God?

And I'll just put it in marital terms, not just trying to keep Dina happy.

Yeah.

I think when we're really focused on God and we're trying to please him, there's a peace that goes along with that.

A P-E-A-C- yeah. Yeah. Yeah, because that, I mean, that's the way God designed it. That's what he

wants is for us to really focus on him. When I know that I'm trying to please Aaron, there's a,

there's an anxiety there, There's a frustration there.

There's a sense of failing there.

Then I can really pay attention to the motives.

When I'm really constantly looking to her, observing her, how am I doing?

Am I doing this right?

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