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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: How the Gift of a Dollhouse Illustrates the Philosophy of Bertrand Russell

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2019

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

In giving the gift of a dollhouse, these loving grandparents illustrate a point argued by philosopher Bertrand Russsell: “To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.” Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin & @LizCraft Links and notes related to this episode can be found in the latest post here: https://gretchenrubin.com/podcasts/ Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter Order a copy of Gretchen’s new book OUTER ORDER, INNER CALM here: http://outerorderinnercalmbook.com Leave a voicemail message on: 774-277-9336 To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:04.3

I heard this story from a friend I know well.

0:07.0

And because I know her well, I know a lot about her family.

0:10.1

So I know that she has a very close family with loving generous parents who are also

0:14.6

very loving and generous grandparents.

0:17.3

And she told me this story about her parents.

0:20.7

At one point, one of their granddaughters became very interested in dollhouses.

0:25.1

Now I know this stage well because both my daughters went through very intense dollhouse

0:29.4

stages.

0:31.3

This granddaughter had a very simple, under furnished version of a dollhouse and she desperately

0:36.0

wanted a more elaborate one.

0:38.1

She talked about how she would furnish it and arrange it and she loved looking at pictures

0:42.0

of dollhouses, dollhouse furniture and miniatures.

0:45.9

So with all good intentions, the two grandparents went out and bought a beautiful dollhouse.

0:51.6

And even more than that, they bought all the furniture for it.

0:55.3

It was a fully furnished dollhouse, the little dining room table and chairs, the little bathtub

1:00.5

and sink, even the tiny vase of flowers and various kinds of food for the kitchen.

1:05.8

So cunning.

1:07.6

And their granddaughter was overjoyed and she played with that dollhouse for a day and she

1:13.8

never much played with it after that.

1:17.0

And I was thinking, why?

1:20.7

I was like the one on my own daughter's way of playing with our dollhouse, especially

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