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The Next Big Idea

LISTENING: What You’re Missing and Why it Matters

The Next Big Idea

Next Big Idea Club

Science, Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Education

4.41.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2020

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

In the cacophony of modern life, it can seem that talking, scoring points, and being heard are more important than paying attention to what others have to say. But journalist Kate Murphy says listening — really listening — can strengthen our ties to the people closest to us and create new connections in our lives.

Transcript

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0:00.0

It's February 28th, 1993, a quiet Sunday morning in Central Texas.

0:07.0

The fields are brown and bare. a quiet Sunday morning in Central Texas.

0:13.0

The fields are brown and bare around a cluster of buildings that house the members of the

0:17.8

Branch Davidian Religious Group.

0:20.0

Then federal agents arrive and all hell breaks loose.

0:25.0

How many gunshots did you hear?

0:27.0

It was quite a few.

0:28.0

You know, I couldn't really say how many it was.

0:31.0

The FBI had come to search the compound for weapons. Later, both sides will claim the other fired the first shot.

0:38.0

Good evening, friends. It has been over 36 hours now since federal agents first confronted a heavily armed religious cult near

0:45.3

Waco.

0:46.3

They were met by a hail of gunfire, killing four of the agents and wounding over a dozen others.

0:52.0

Tonight additional agents have arrived on that

0:54.2

scene, many of them in combat gear.

0:57.7

FBI agent Gary Nesner is one of the new arrivals, but he's not in combat gear. He's come with a different toolkit

1:05.1

as he explains in a speech in 2010.

1:07.7

Active listening skills. They're communication skills based on trying to develop a relationship with somebody.

1:15.0

Nesner is one of the FBI's lead hostage negotiators.

1:19.0

More than 100 people are inside the compound including dozens of children.

1:23.8

But Nesner says they don't see themselves as hostages because they're devoted to their

1:27.9

leader David Kerech.

1:30.0

So how do you then influence somebody that's not holding hostages?

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