Listen To Your Heart (with Kate Murphy)

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Ana Marie Cox and Open Mike Eagle

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4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2020

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Want to learn some spicy new tricks just in time for Valentine’s Day? This week Kate Murphy joins Ana Marie Cox (@anamariecox) to talk about this season’s hottest tip: mindfully listening to those around you. Kate Murphy, author of You’re Not Listening, talks about why listening is so important, and how it can save your life in the long term. Afterward, they discuss being comfortable with silence and working through disagreements. Thanks to our sponsors! quip, makers of the quip electric toothbrush wants you to know the one single discovery that matters most for your dental care. It is simply this, that if you have good habits, you are good. Join over THREE MILLION healthy mouths and get quip today, starting at TWENTY FIVE DOLLARS. And if you go to getquip.com/FRIENDS, RIGHT NOW, you’ll get your first refill FREE. Rothy’s has quickly grown to a most-loved, gotta-have-them brand. It’s no surprise they have over 1,000 nearly perfect reviews. They’re stylish, sustainable, comfortable, washable—really, all in one pair of shoes. They’re the perfect flats for life on-the-go. Go to Rothys.com/WFLT to get your new favorite flats.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Anna Marie Cox and welcome to With Friends Like These, the show.
0:09.8	Well, you know, I usually describe this show as being about talking through differences,
0:17.0	talking across differences.
0:19.4	But this week's guest made me realize, as I wind up mentioning to her, that ideally,
0:25.0	this show is really about listening through differences.
0:29.6	And maybe that's a language and behavior shift we should be making all the time.
0:34.3	Like, I'm sure many of us dread the words we need to talk.
0:39.6	It's ominous, terrifying.
0:42.2	But what if we brought someone into an important conversation by saying, hey, we need to listen?
0:49.9	That's what our guest Kate Murphy advocates.
0:51.8	Murphy is a New York Times contributor who you have read.
0:54.8	A lot of her pieces go viral.
0:56.6	You might remember her column about whether your friends actually like you or why we
1:00.8	hiccup.
1:01.8	But she's here to talk about her new book.
1:04.1	You're not listening, what you're missing and why it matters.
1:10.1	Welcome to the show, Kate.
1:11.9	Well thank you for having me.
1:12.9	Glad to be here.
1:14.4	I am very excited to talk to you.
1:17.6	Actually, let me rephrase that.
1:19.4	I am very excited to listen to you.
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